Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Insecure Writer's Support Group April, 2015

What happened to March? How did it go by so fast??

Crazy time flies......

So how is everyone? I hope you're all happy, healthy, and safe!

What am I insecure about this month?

1. It's April, which means it's Camp Nano. I'm tackling TWO projects. Why two? Because I have two plot ideas and they both are ready to write. Plus, I've got several days I'll be able to write completely undistracted this month. Yes, I'm taking advantage of this!

2. Our older Macbook crashed and because of it's age (2006) it can't be fixed in the local shop. Which means we'd have to send it away. Which will cost a boat load of money. Which still doesn't guarantee it can be fixed. I lost A LOT of stuff. I mean, look how long we had it? This means I lost a lot of my writing stuff, notes, WIP's and manuscripts. So... that's sad.

How about you? What are you insecure about??

You can find the sign up list here:

http://www.insecurewriterssupportgroup.com/p/iwsg-sign-up.html

You can find lots of other writing encouragement here:

http://www.insecurewriterssupportgroup.com

Wednesday, March 11, 2015

My Writing Career Changes and Plans

With today's access to the world via Internet, I’ve come in contact with hundreds of websites. Who hasn’t, right? As a writer, looking for the perfect agent to represent my manuscript (s) it’s been a tempting temptation to put my work out there to anyone who is interested. I mean that’s what all authors want, isn’t? To have a published book by anyone who is willing to print it?

That’s a huge NO. My perspective on this has changed in a drastic, career changing way. After being swindled a few times, cheated twice, used by so-called friends in the industry, and lied to more than I can count, I’m pulling back the pens and doing a huge inventory check.

My most recent girl agent crush has recently tweeted an extensive amount of writer tips, which I took to heart. She mentioned that self publishing works for some and may be a good thing for them. But if the reason a writer chooses to self pub is because no one else will represent them or publish them, then you are cutting your self short as a writer. 

I mean, really. Why settle for less than best when you have an amazing opportunity to better your writing?????????

These tweets were followed by another set of outstanding tweets where my new girl agent crush listed plenty of ways on how to improve your writing. She mentioned never settling for GOOD ENOUGH. She saw a lot of good projects and this is why good is not good enough. 

Aim for GREAT.
Write fresh and original. 
Don’t write what’s been written before. 
Make your writing add something new to the genre.

These tweets opened my eyes to see how much I needed to improve if I ever wanted to find my agent and land a publishing contract. My writing *may* be good, but GOOD IS NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

I want GREAT. 

And then, I came across the discussion of pitch contests and writer/agent websites.
WOW. Just wow.
So many thoughts going on inside my mind. I mean, I was all onboard with something like this. What a great opportunity to find an agent, right?
Hmmm. I don’t know.
Sure, it could be a good thing.
But an agent weighed in on the discussion and her comment grabbed my attention more than anything else. 
She said something like, “These websites make writers come off as desperate” and I had to wonder if this is the legacy I wanted for me as a writer, an author??

I’ve come to the conclusion this is not the professional appearance I want to wear. I’ve concluded that my work, my time, my writing is worth more than a desperate plea, a this is good, but not good enough.

And for the PS on my post, I want to add that every writer needs to very careful with who they send their material. Even those who you thought you could trust. I’ve been taken advantage of, used for ulterior motives, had money stolen from me, and bold face lied too, all from people I trusted. All well known. So please, writers. BE CAREFUL. You’ve invested too much in your manuscripts to have them stolen, abused, and used by others in underhanded deals.


You deserve better.

Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Update On Grand Baby

Hey all. I wanted to check in and let everyone know my baby got to go home from NICU!!! She perfectly healthy and happy.

And did I mention how perfect and precious she is?

She was born with low blood sugar. It took her a week to stablize, but once she got used to eating, she never looked back!

She weighted 8lb 2 oz and was 19 1/2 inches long.

Thanks for all your prayers and well wishes.
Life will return to normal and I hope to get back to regular blogging again very soon.

See you soon, beautiful guys and dolls.

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Insecure Writers Support Group March 15

Hey beautiful guys and dolls!
I'm late today, but I've been at the hospital. I'll update soon, but my grand baby has been in the NICU.
See you soon with updates:)

Wednesday, February 4, 2015

#IWSG Feburary 2015 Insecure Writers Support Group

Hey all you beautiful guys and dolls!

I'm so glad I have the support of this community.  And so today, I thought I'd share some of the many reasons why I have stayed a part of this group for so long. (I think it's been at least three years. I will check and edit this if I'm wrong.) Yep! Here's the link to my very first post in 2012! My 1st IWSG post!

It makes writing easier.
I  need the encouragement.
I enjoy the company.
I learn new things.
I make new friends.
I can share my frustrations and disappointments without fear fear of being laughed at.
I have a shoulder to cry on when needed.
I can share others disappointments and encourage them.
I know I am not alone.

Thank you all for visiting and encouraging me, through everything.

Last time, I mentioned my desire and resolution to self publish. Can I just say I had no idea how hard that would be? After looking into this, I realized it may be more work than I can handle.

I don't know???

But I'm still editing and working on my book. Who knows what will happen after that??

Have a great day friends!